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Fourteen Rules Kids Won't Learn in School
Written by Charles J. Sykes, a senior fellow at the Wisconsin Policy Research Institute, who has written a number of books, including "Dumbing Down Our Kids: Why American Children Feel Good About Themselves, But Can't read, Write or Add."
Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it.
Rule 2: The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself.
Rule 3: You will not make $50,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice president with a car phone, until you earn both.
Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss who doesn't have tenure.
Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping - they called it opportunity.
Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you are. So before you save the rainforest from the parasites of your parents' generation, try delousing the closet in your room.
Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life has not. In some schools they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to anything in real life.
Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off, and very few employers are interested in helping you find yourself. Do that on your own time.
Rule 10: Television is not real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.
Rule 12: Smoking does not make you look cool. It makes you look moronic.
Rule 13: You are not immortal. (See Rule 12).
Rule 14: Enjoy this while you can.
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